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#1264674 - 06/08/12 08:03 PM
Peanut; HELP?!
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Hello everyone, My name is Michelle and I just recently re-homed a glider from a previous owner. Her name is Peanut and I only got her a week ago. I need to know more about this glider because I just can't understand what she wants from me. I am trying so hard to build our relationship, I think her previous owner neglected her. When I got her she came in a small cage with only one hanging hammock in the corner. I am very low on money so I am trying to help her. I put a small teddy in her cage and one of my shirts so she could get my scent. Please help me clear things up? Her diet: Right now I give her a table spoon of something every night. For instance, one night she had bananas and blue berries. The next she had five meal worms (Which she loves.) Another night I cooked an egg for her. I am afraid that I am not feeding her the way she needs to be fed? Her toys: I am DYING to get her a cage set and a bigger cage but again, I don't have much money. =(. If anyone knows where I can buy cage sets and toys at a really low price that would help out tons! Her personality: Peanut is a handful. I have been peeking into her cage (Which I covered with blankets because of the AC) and telling her everything is okay. I will talk soothingly to her and reach my hand in her cage slowly with a treat in the palm of my hand and my hand flat, she often crabs and lunges to bite me! I try not to pull away or jump when she crabs but she scared me sometimes. She bit me once when I was changing her food! I try to use the bonding pouch but she wants nothing to do with it. When I actually get her in there she crabs, scratches at the zipper, bites the screen, anything she can do to get out she will try to do. I really want to bond with her, but she doesn't want it. Her health: Peanut's nails are very long. Being low on money I can't afford her wheel yet. I am too scared to cut her nails myself but I know they are too long because I see them get caught on the things on her cage and she gets scared. I was her happy but I am not sure what to do. She sleeps all day long up until about 9-10 p.m. Sometimes, I open her cage, let her come out, climb around my room and jump on me and my boyfriend. she explores for hours until she goes back into her cage on her own. She DOES NOT like when my hands are near her though, she never has fallen asleep other then in her cage. Please help me!!
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#1264681 - 06/08/12 08:51 PM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
[Re: MissSmiiles]
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Glideritis Anonymous
Registered: 03/21/10
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Loc: Washington D.C. Metro Area
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Hello everyone, My name is Michelle and I just recently re-homed a glider from a previous owner. Her name is Peanut and I only got her a week ago. I need to know more about this glider because I just can't understand what she wants from me. I am trying so hard to build our relationship, I think her previous owner neglected her. When I got her she came in a small cage with only one hanging hammock in the corner. I am very low on money so I am trying to help her. I put a small teddy in her cage and one of my shirts so she could get my scent. Please help me clear things up? Her diet: Right now I give her a table spoon of something every night. For instance, one night she had bananas and blue berries. The next she had five meal worms (Which she loves.) Another night I cooked an egg for her. I am afraid that I am not feeding her the way she needs to be fed? You're right, she definitely needs more than this. What you're feeding does not give her enough of her nutritional needs. She needs a protein source of some kind each evening, until you're able to get her on a good and stable diet. So, that can be boiled chicken (just boil in water, no seasonings, no oils, take off the skin), chicken babyfood or scrambled egg (no oils, no seasonings). She also needs a good variety of fruits & vegetables, along with that protein source, about 2 Tablespoons total. Now, please keep in mind that what I've just told you is not enough for long term. Please click on the word diet and it will take you to a page of links so that you can take a look at the recognized diets that many of us use here on the board. For questions on them, read through the Diet & Nutrition forum and/or post your own questions there.Her toys: I am DYING to get her a cage set and a bigger cage but again, I don't have much money. =(. If anyone knows where I can buy cage sets and toys at a really low price that would help out tons! There are several vendors here on the board that I'm sure would be more than happy to help you out and work with your budget. If you look HERE you can take a look at what people are offering. Her personality: Peanut is a handful. I have been peeking into her cage (Which I covered with blankets because of the AC) and telling her everything is okay. I will talk soothingly to her and reach my hand in her cage slowly with a treat in the palm of my hand and my hand flat, she often crabs and lunges to bite me! I try not to pull away or jump when she crabs but she scared me sometimes. She bit me once when I was changing her food! I try to use the bonding pouch but she wants nothing to do with it. When I actually get her in there she crabs, scratches at the zipper, bites the screen, anything she can do to get out she will try to do. I really want to bond with her, but she doesn't want it. Okay...you're moving a bit too quickly for her, that's what she's trying to tell you. sounds like it's too soon for her to go into the bonding pouch and that's fine, you can work on building a relationship with her in the cage for the next few days and see how things progress. Also...if you are going to attempt to give her treats, don't use an open palm. Instead, close your hand into a fist and put the treat on top of your hand and offer it to her that way. But allow her to come to you. She will do so when she's ready. She's crabbing and lunging because she's terrified, and that's the only way she can let you know. Move very slowly with her...she just needs time. Here are a couple of really good links for you to read, I think you'll find them to be helpful.
Into The Bonding Pit
Building A Relationship With Your Glider Her health: Peanut's nails are very long. Being low on money I can't afford her wheel yet. I am too scared to cut her nails myself but I know they are too long because I see them get caught on the things on her cage and she gets scared. I was her happy but I am not sure what to do. She sleeps all day long up until about 9-10 p.m. Sometimes, I open her cage, let her come out, climb around my room and jump on me and my boyfriend. she explores for hours until she goes back into her cage on her own. She DOES NOT like when my hands are near her though, she never has fallen asleep other then in her cage. She needs to have her nails trimmed. It's very important. If she's in a sleeping pouch, you can gently (but firmly) hold her in there, pulling one leg out at a time to trim the nails. Just trim the very tip of the nail. No matter what, this has to be done because if she gets caught on something in her cage, they can quickly become injured.
Another side note - think about using either your bathroom or purchasing an inexpensive tent for playtime. Right now, with how scared she is, being in a large room like that is not going to help things out and it will only continue to keep her scared. She needs a smaller, more confined area until she learns to trust you. Since she is still nervous and doesn't trust your hands, having to chase her to get her back in her cage can be detrimental to the bonding process.Please help me!!
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#1264688 - 06/08/12 09:20 PM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
[Re: MissSmiiles]
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Registered: 03/23/11
Posts: 471
Loc: Florida
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Aimee has given you great advice. One thing I could add is you can make your own toys, hammocks, and vines. Go buy yourself some fleece and even if you can't sew you can make some cage items. http://www.suzsugargliders.com/nosewaccessories.htmThere are also some theads on Glidercentral that tell you how to make your own toys. I don't know how to link them for you, but maybe someone else will come along and do it:)
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#1264922 - 06/10/12 01:09 AM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
[Re: MissSmiiles]
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Serious Glideritis
Registered: 06/16/09
Posts: 5668
Loc: Hurst, Texas
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MissSmiiles, can you give us a better idea of where you are in Ohio? I know several owners in the state that might be able to help you better in the nail-trimming department, but I don't want to recommend someone halfway across the state  First-time owning a glider is a LOT right at the first day. Just remember to breathe, and your glider will be fine. If you change one thing for the better, you've improved Peanut's life. She'll come around. She needs time to adjust.
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#1265928 - 06/13/12 07:53 PM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
[Re: MissSmiiles]
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Registered: 10/21/11
Posts: 63
Loc: Munford, Tennessee
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There are many other treats, we use dried pineapple, dried papaya, mealie worms, craisans, and cheerios. Our bribe list to allow us to be their slaves has brought some very rough rescues to love monkeys. It does take time to bring some of these little guys around. Be patient and go slow. Of our 10 rescues none has taken longer and had more set backs than Cosmo. He has come so far and he still a sweet heart. Being a female she will act different when she comes into her heat cycle. The call could be her vocalizing that. Our females get vocal, hyper, up at odd times and overly friendly. It just depends on your glider. She might also be calling to find other gliders. These are colony animals and do so much better with other gliders around.
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#1266166 - 06/14/12 03:21 PM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
[Re: MissSmiiles]
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Glider Guardian
Registered: 11/24/10
Posts: 871
Loc: NY
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You always have to prepare for the worst - which can mean that they wouldn't get along. I wouldn't be so hesitant though, and would definitely save that little girl! (if it was me). Table scraps are NOT a well rounded diet. As far as them being over a year old - if it makes you feel any better, the first two we got were about a year when we got them (they came bonded). Then I found a 9 year old who needed a home. When we introduced them the two were about 1 1/2 and the other was 9... it was love at first site. About 2 months ago we added a 4th. She is about 2, as are the other 2, and the now 10 year old... and they are all SO SO happy together. Obviously anything can happen, but from what I have gathered it seems like introductions are successful way more times than there are issues. This does not mean to NOT prepare for the worst, but I would be cautiously optimistic. You may read online about intros not working out, but remember too that those times are when people ask questions and need help - so of course there will be more posts with issues than there will be "Went well, horray!" (although there are a bunch of those on here too!). Just my 2 cents, for what it's worth.  Oh - also - if an intro doesn't work right on the first try, it doesn't mean it can't be done. I think most gliders can be put together, even if it takes a long time. However, two solitary ones... I think the odds are in your favor. Good luck! Keep us updated!
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#1266372 - 06/15/12 01:09 AM
Re: Peanut; HELP?!
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Registered: 11/21/10
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Loc: Saint Louis MO
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You always have to prepare for the worst - which can mean that they wouldn't get along. I wouldn't be so hesitant though, and would definitely save that little girl! (if it was me). Table scraps are NOT a well rounded diet. As far as them being over a year old - if it makes you feel any better, the first two we got were about a year when we got them (they came bonded). Then I found a 9 year old who needed a home. When we introduced them the two were about 1 1/2 and the other was 9... it was love at first site. About 2 months ago we added a 4th. She is about 2, as are the other 2, and the now 10 year old... and they are all SO SO happy together. Obviously anything can happen, but from what I have gathered it seems like introductions are successful way more times than there are issues. This does not mean to NOT prepare for the worst, but I would be cautiously optimistic. You may read online about intros not working out, but remember too that those times are when people ask questions and need help - so of course there will be more posts with issues than there will be "Went well, horray!" (although there are a bunch of those on here too!). Just my 2 cents, for what it's worth.  Oh - also - if an intro doesn't work right on the first try, it doesn't mean it can't be done. I think most gliders can be put together, even if it takes a long time. However, two solitary ones... I think the odds are in your favor. Good luck! Keep us updated! Nicely said!  I would do it! It would help with the bonding process and peanuts crabbiness. They do so much better when they have a friend! 
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