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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6254
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Amber, that is so beautiful! (From what I could read through the tears.) You and Poss had such a special bond and were very blessed to have had each other.
My heart just breaks for you! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

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Amber,
I am so very sorry for your loss and do know exactly (today again, in fact)how you feel. Making -the decision- and carrying through is the hardest thing a person can ever do. But, as much as it rips your heart, it is the loving and compassionate thing to do. Your Poss knew how deeply, how fiercely you loved him, and as much as he clung to life out of love for you, you must know that he loved you even more for helping him do what he couldn't do for himself.
For you and your most beloved soul-mate, many share your tears and heartache.

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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6256
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Amber,
There are no words to express the sorrow I feel for you. When I had to put my cat of 16 1/2 years down, five minutes after I left the vets the song Seasons In The Sun came on the radio. Even my husband who scoffs at things like that, knew it was my Cakey saying good bye to me. I am so sorry for you. The next few months will be hard. We will all be with you though and I hope we can ease things for you in your time of grief. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/littleglider.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/littleglider.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/littleglider.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/littleglider.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6257
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<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crying.gif" alt="" /> I can't even imagine the sorrow you are feeling right now, but I am feeling some of it as well.

Poss was a very special glider with an equally special Mom. He is now an angel and I am sure that he will watch over you until it is your time to join him.

Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6258
04/23/03 08:21 PM
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Amba, geez girl Im so sorry Im late hearing about this. Ive been so busy lately I miss a lot of things. This is awful news. My heart is breaking with you. Ive known you for a large part of my 6 years in keeping gliders. We've talked and shared so much over that time I feel like you are my direct family. I would hate like all he** to see you disappear from GC. Even with my life being busy with college and all, I still try to check in. You arent feeling any love or comfort? Well, I love you!! Looks like a lot of these people do. Try to take comfort in that? I know you're in pain but staying here and posting might be best for you since so many people here love you too.

I dont know what I can do for you, but I will make time for you if you would like. To talk to me, cry to me..whatever you need. I will make the time. I dont care how much homework I have. Im also sorry I missed your ICQ message last night. I was working online after class and I fell asleep in the middle of it. Im sorry.

Hugs and Im here for you if you need. I will be up tonight looking for you. Im sorry about this whole thing, lots of love from me.

Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6259
04/23/03 08:30 PM
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Thanks guys and kimy no problem. i have a good cry when i come on here and see his pics, the posts etc. i will be away this weekend so i wont be online, i think being away will help, but i feel so aweful because im leaving poss ( yes i know hes burried) but im guilty like im abandoning him. it will take time to accept and feel he is gone, but at the moment i dont feel him in my heart, outside or anywhere around me. i asked him before he went to please try and give me signs he was ok, but i feel nothing. i watched the video i made of him 2 weeks ago before he got sick and he was chattering and making his noises, first time i ever got it on video and to see him moving and to hear him i felt he was still alive. it is killing me but i know he wants me to be happy, problem is i feel so guilty even breaking a smile because im scared he thinks im over it and feel nothing that hes gone <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


Poss: Sadly i am unable to touch or feel you, but,My love, my heart and my soul will go on loving you forever. Nothing will ever take your place you are the most unique, the most special bundle of joy that has bought so much love into my life. I love you.
Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6260
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Oh, Amber
that is SOO sweet My heart greaves with you although we have never met and I have never gotten the joy of seeing POss in person but everytime I see his pictures here on the board that you hadd posted I still smile at that adorable face of his , you were both soo pleased to have each other for as long as you did , I pray That I Will as long of a time with My jack and my others as you did with POss. I strill cry with you as I read the words tyou write about your swwet Precioous POss, Please know and rember I am here if you need to talk or if you Just need an ear to listen ok .. PLease email me and I will give you a number that you and only you can get ahold of me on ok .

Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6261
04/24/03 12:07 AM
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Amber, so sorry to hear of Poss's passing. May your heart heal with time. Wish I could give you a hug. Hope you do make it here for the SGGA, would love to see you.


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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6262
04/24/03 11:53 AM
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I'm so very sorry and want to share my deepest sympathy. Maybe when more time has passed, you can come back to this thread and be a tiny bit comforted by all the people who support you and share in your experience. Also, I wanted to let you know how much joy Poss has brought to COUNTLESS members here, more than you could imagine! I've never posted to you, but I've read almost all the posts about Poss and have loved sharing his story. I think the most courageous thing you could do was help him to rest, without pain. And I know that he's there watching over you.

We will ALL remember Poss! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/gliderangel.gif" alt="" />

Crystal

Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6263
04/24/03 05:33 PM
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I just dont feel it ever getting any better, i know it probably will, but im just so lost. i watched more video of him last night <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> i laughed and i cried. i dont know if its good for me to watch motion pictures of him or not. it just confuses me more and makes it feel he is still alive <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


Poss: Sadly i am unable to touch or feel you, but,My love, my heart and my soul will go on loving you forever. Nothing will ever take your place you are the most unique, the most special bundle of joy that has bought so much love into my life. I love you.
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04/24/03 06:19 PM
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Amber,

I am so sorry you have lost Poss. I know that our animals are like our children and it just breaks our hearts to lose one of them. May your heart heal with time <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

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I am so sorry that you had to go through this. It is so hard to lose someone that we love, and I could tell by all of the pictures and stories how close you and Poss were.

Just know that you are as much a part of him as he is of you, and every little smile and laugh you make he feels along with you. He's looking down watching over you, and I know he wants you to be happy and to see you smile and hear you laugh. For so many years together, you were his whole life, his love and his happiness. You gave him the gift of a world filled without pain when you knew it was just too much for him, that is the most unselfish thing you could have done. I know he would want you to be happy.

Don't feel guilty about an innocent smile or feeling of warmth, because it may just be Poss' way of telling you it's okay, that he is in a better place and that you shouldn't feel sad anymore. Maybe those smiles and that laughter are those signs you asked him to leave for you, so that you know he is happy and well.

I am so very sorry for your loss, and I've sat here and read through all of these posts with tears running down my face. Alec walked in and wanted to know what was the matter, and I just started bawling...Please know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers.

May your little Poss rest in peace. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6266
04/26/03 01:35 AM
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Amber, I was told this when my father died by someone that meant alot to me. I have thought it over alot and I know it is true.

When someone dies they are not truely gone until no one remembers them anymore. As long as someone somewhere remembers them and passes on their story they are still among us and still are a part of us. Poss will be with us, many of us, for many many years to come. He is gone from this phyical world but he made a huge imprint on alot of us. Your stories of your times together have given us all so much, and your courage has given us much too. I know that you hurt and you will, you will miss him for a long time. He was a part of your life for a long time. But please know this too, Poss will be in our stories for a long time, for years, he will continue.

I know that Poss loved you very much and he would not want you to stop smiling. Every smile that you have right now is for him, becuase you love him and you can carry on because he helped you to be a strong person.

You are in my heart and my thoughts. Poss will be in the stories that I tell everyone about gliders for all my life. You are both very inspiring. Your poetry and stories are very special.

Poss will watch over you. When they are that special to us they always watch over us.
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Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6267
04/27/03 01:02 AM
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last 2 posts put tears in my eyes and i started to bawl to.
i have been away 2 days and being away from home made it easier. when i got back there is his huge pic on the wall staring down at me. i feel a little better but im still hurting so much. life is so different. i still expect him to come out and beg for food <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
all of these posts have made me want to come and meet yall so much more because i feel like we are all like family. i dont know if comming here eases my pain or helps with it because i just cry when i read the posts you all kindly leave me. i guess its dealing and healing with it?


Poss: Sadly i am unable to touch or feel you, but,My love, my heart and my soul will go on loving you forever. Nothing will ever take your place you are the most unique, the most special bundle of joy that has bought so much love into my life. I love you.
Re: Goodbye, It breaks my heart to tell you all.this [Re: ] #6268
04/28/03 05:20 AM
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Peppie just wanted to thank you for your card. i cant find your email addy? to reply so im sorry. it was a lovely thought thank you so much.


Poss: Sadly i am unable to touch or feel you, but,My love, my heart and my soul will go on loving you forever. Nothing will ever take your place you are the most unique, the most special bundle of joy that has bought so much love into my life. I love you.
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Amber,
I have always enjoyed reading stories about Poss and your travels with him. I especially love the pictures and videos of Poss. I want to thank you for taking time to share with us the pictures and videos and stories about Poss, as Poss was truly an amazingly well-bonded glider, just as you are an equally amazing woman. Please know that we all are your family and we are here for you and with you. May time and memories heal you. Poss will always be in your heart and may you find comfort in that. I think what you have done is the most unselfish thing you have ever done.
Like Kimmy said, I love you! We at GC love you!
You will find that I have sent you a private message with a request you had made.

Jennifer

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I know this is really late, however i had some conversations with you about poss over a year ago, and i am very saddenned to have found out the bad news. I never met the little devil, but i knew he was special by the way you talked about him. I hope that you are doing better now, i felt the same way you did a few months ago when i had to put my Ferret down, because he wouldnt eat and had lost so much weight i couldnt even look at him. I still struggle with the fact that i was the one that had him killed. and that has been months for me also. I still have dreams about him and miss him, i know you feel the same about Poss. thanks for sharing your and poss' life with us! it has made all of us better thanks to you.

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