do pm's get critiqued as a post? if not, where do they go once you have pm'de someone,& it didn't make it to the person?
josefine

no,we've been in a 'conference'. the pm doesn't show up on my screen,that i thought i sent correctly,& evidently it didn't. i do hope though,that it either be off in cyberspace forever,or it will eventually show up in our pm's.
as far as it goes,Suz & Linda do have my permission(w/password)to get into everything of mine on here,b/c i just trust them explicitly,& have much love for them both,even if you say they can't,it is my membership,& i need them quite abit,it just makes things easier. ok?
josefine

Most times what happens is the user never gets added to the pm accidentally and just sits in the database. Every week or two I run a command to delete orphan pm's and then it will be removed so no worries