hi our glider seems to be sick, she is 5 years or so old, she moves real slow and cant seem to walk very well, sometimes her head and upper body kinda shake, she is eating some, she will sit at the bottom of her cage and put her head straight down to the ground and just sit there she seems weak, not sure if it is calcium or dehydration, not a lot of good glider vets here, should i give her some kinda of calcium boost? milk? yogurt? she seems cold to the touch, i am puzzled she has always been healthy, she is a lil overweight, what can i give her to help her with this? coul dit be lack of sugar? worried glider parent..and her pop seems dark black, and at times is runny, []jha18398@aol.com[/] <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Get her to the vet ASAP! Until then, keep her warm (in your shirt is good), check for dehydration ( pull up on the skinn at the back of her neck, if it stays up or goes down slowly, she's dehydrated) Give her water or gliderade. But get her to the vet. I'll go see if I can find someone more experienced.

i am in denver colorado if anyone knows a good vet in the area,,

Is she clicking making a weird noise or anything. Any vet will do if you cannot find a glider vet. Just get to a vet thats the most important thing. Ask for cal gluconate syrum, and make sure they get a fecal smear done. And listen the gliders lungs, make sure they look for dehydration, if dehydrated, make sure they give fluids, and show you how to sub q them, please let us have updates, and I willprsy for you guys. But get to a vet now, just go to any of them and tell them its an emergency, its always an emergency when it comes to gliders ok...please take this seriously

Look in your Yellow pages and see if you see a vet that treats exotics and call and see if they see gliders. You can also go to the bottom of this page and click on vets and it will show states and what vets in Colo members have suggested.

I would do this soon. I agree to hold her and her warm and give her water.

Someone should be along soon that may be able to give a vet's name for you, but I wouldnt wait. I would look now and then Go.
Keep us posted

I am not familiar with the location of Denver. There is a vet in Aurora, 2 in Colorado Springs and 1 in Loveland.

Scroll down this page to the bottom and click vet. Then click Colorado and then click whichever one you are familiar with.

This glider is extremely sick. Appears to be dehydrated and also appears to be suffering for a bacterial ailment. Needs fluids sub-q, antibiotic and possibly a calcium supplement such as Calcionate Syrup given 2 times a day.

Ask vet for fecal float with a cytolgy to see what kind of bacteria is making her sick. Keep glider Warm by pouch carrying her on your body.

At this point .....any vet will do as long as he is willing to see her. Need more help...please post.

In Denver, go to Dr. Kevin Fitzgerald @ Alameda East Veterinary Hospital. (303) 366-2639. They're on Alameda just west of Havana.

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she does making a clicking noise every now and then i gave her some glideraide and she drank some, not as much as i was hoping, i have her warm now and will have to find a way to get her to the vet, i wish she would drink more than she did, i put the lil bowl in front of her she drank then just boes her head and sits, thanks fo rhelp i will update and any ohter info is helpful, thanks so much mike

I really hope you can get her in to the doctor ASAP. This sounds very serious and I fear she doesn't have very much time left if she's not seen... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Sending good thoughts and prayers for you and your little one. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

ok well the clicking noise you hear is her in respitory distress, find a vet with an incubator and an oxygen tank she needs oxygen she may have a pneumonia...I just lot a glider on the 30th from pneumonia, I really hope she gets to the vet soon...and she needs to be sub qued also....try to stay with her at the vets, she needs you.

Head bobbing is a sign or being in resp distress due to possibility of bacterial illness. She is too ill to have much of a desire to eat or drink. This glider is criticaly ill.

thanks for all the help went to vet, he gave her a bacterial shot, and a shot for dehydration, i have to give her a calium feeding and water/pedilite, and the stuff for the baterial infection however since we have come home from the vet she is worse, she can harldy move, and feed with syringe, she is not acting right at all barely awake, it does not look good i hope she gets better, thanks for all the help, i mean it.

Maybe you should take her back to the vet or at least call back to check in. Maybe he can keep her for the night.

I think if your little one is worse, I would agree to take him/her back to the vet. You didn't post what tests this vet ran on her, to come up with the prognosis that she has a bacteria infection? I would just rush to the vet sweetie just to be sure. Sending well wishes and hugs your way!!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/worried2.gif" alt="" /> Any news on your little one?

I'm praying for her <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

he did no test he based the barteria on her tar black stools, she is not even moving now but her eyes are open and she is breathing were trying to get vet on the phone she is in bad shape now.. much worse

If the infection is in the late stages...it will affect multi organs.

At this stage...supportive care is needed. This can be done by holding and keeping her warm. Let her rest as much as possible. Little one is worn out from being so ill. If the antibiotic is going to help her...the shot will take about 24 hours before you will see an improvemtent. Additional fluids (D5w if the kidneys are not involved) may be needed by the vet to substain her till she is able to eat and drink.

Further vet care can be sought...more than likly she would need to be on oxygen to help her breath as well as sub-q'ing throughout the night at a vet clinic. Most gliders when this severly ill do not pull though, however they are more comfortable and eases the pain till they cross over. However, I do pray she is not this ill.

Sending prayers of comfort to all of you including your little one. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Tar black stools....sounds like she may have had an internal bleed at some point..

Hold your little one close to your heart as she may be ready to leave you. This will help comfort her to help ease her suffering.

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Mike, I know of a real good vet there in Aurora, Co. He is at Alameda East veterinarian Hospital. His name is Dr. Fitzgerald. He works with all kinds of exotic animals. He is located off of Alameda Ave. and Peoria. They have a 24 hour emergency basis so please take your little one there with no time to spare.

Ive heard of him, He's on the show Emergency vets on the Animal Planet, from what I've seen he's a good vet, <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

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Please keep us updated, she sounds very very ill. Saying prayers for you and your girl. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crying.gif" alt="" />
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Angie

Keep her close to you and warm. Fluids are critical, and you can put them down with a syringe if she won't drink-any fluids, juice, nectar, water, gliderade, at this point is better than none. In your shirt would be the best place right now. Pet her and talk to her there, and please let us know what the vet says. Prayers and hugs coming your way! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

shortly after my last post my lil baby died in my hands, while trying to get doc on the phone, we are so devestated, i had her along time and cared and held her every night for 5+ years, i feel so sad right now dont know what to do, i buried my lil friend in the back yard, and said my prayers, now i need to grieve very very much my bath robe seems so empty without her, you people are great god bless you, i am taking this very hard, i really had a bond with my spyro,and so did my wife and our dogs. : ( r.i.p lil spyro.

It's calcium defic. get Neo-calglucon a pharacist can give it to you it is a supplement for children with calcium defic. It will save her life garanteed my Stitch had it. Now his hind legs are a little weak but it was because it took a while for the vet to figure out what to do. Has she ever had any tramatic moments with you or anyone or thing? Good luck the med is not that expensive :clap<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frostyangel.gif" alt="" />wave: Please PM me with how she is doing.

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I am so sorry! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Its so hard to lose one of these sweet creatures, they capture our hearts so much.
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Angie

I am so very sorry I know exactly where you are and it is devastating. When my baby died my husband told me that Akachan was in a far better place. He told me "Akachan is seating in Heaven in a lawn chair eating the heads off the endless supply of freeze dried crickets next to him and toss the rest (that was his favorite thing to do)!" So I guess what I am trying to say is I am sorry and your little girl is have a feast with my Akachan. You are in my prayers I promise your crying will not stop for months. Akachan died in May and to this day I still cry. Cry it is good and dream of the great times you had and the great place she is.
With Tears and Love,
Moochachos

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> I am so very sorry for you loss of Spyro <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crying.gif" alt="" />. May your memories be vivid and last a lifetime.

Karin

Mike I am so sorry. It just has to be the worst feeling.

Don't go away from us yet let us help you through this. I know words cannot help heal but all the love and support you will get from all the members will help some.

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Mike,

I am sorry for your loss. I couldn't help tearing cause I lost my boy to similar symptoms and I didn't have the knowledge or idea to come here and ask questions. It made me wonder about whether or not I should be a glider-mom. Don't question yourself about it. And, the pain Will subside, but she will be with you in your memories always.


Regards,

I'm so sorry she didn't make it! When you said you had made it to the vet I had high hopes, at least you know she's not suffering anymore. Please stick around, we're all here for support!

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crying.gif" alt="" />I am so sorry your little one didn't make it. Here is something to help ease the pain:

The Rainbow Bridge:

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Your little one is there now, waiting for you to join her someday. I know the pain you are in now, and so do many others here. Know that we are here for you as long as you need us. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs,

~Lynn

I am sorry that you are going through this but please listen and get her back to the vet. Hold her close to your heart and keep her warm . No matter what she needs you now more than ever. I will keep you and your baby in my prayers.
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Thank you all so much, i did sleep i think, but when i got up and saw her big empty cage i lost it i do not now what to do or say,after i go thome from the vet she must have stopped breathing i held her for a long time thinking she was alive beacause her eye's were open but she was not moving, in fact i held her until my wife came home and told me to let her go i will never forget this helpless feeling i had, i could not have made it back to the vet im time, they closed at 5:30 at she might have been gone by then, the vet did call us to try and consoul me but i could not speak to him so my wife did, he wanted to do an post autopsy but by then i had already buried me lil one, plus i would not want her all cut up like that, thanks for all the support you are a wonderfull group.. Mike

i'm so sorry mike <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> my baby girl died in my hands too and it was a life changing experience and she will always be in my heart. i hope you feel better soon

I'm so sorry <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> Truly, I am. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/gliderangel.gif" alt="" />

now i even feel sick to my stomach, i am so glad i found this site, you people are a godsend.

Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort knowing that one day you will see your lil one again. She has lots of good gliders up there to hang out with while she is waiting for you.

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Thanks to the Rainbow Bridge poem I officially can not stop crying. You don't know how much I needed that poem. To Mike and all that have lost their angels save that poem. I am, on those days when I see his picture or I brag about him to friends and begin to sob, I do believe it is going to be the Rainbow Bridge that will help me. So thank you. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crying.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/needhug.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Mike,

I know everyone else has already said it, but I'm very sorry for your loss. Time will not erase the pain, but remember the good times, not the end. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

what a nice poem, i feel terrible, maybe i could have did more, to have her outside buired in the cold ground, makes me sad she always liked to be warm, dont know what to do, here is a picture of spryo

What a cutie pie. Just remember that that is only her body out there. Her spirit is is warm and happy over the Rainbow Bridge. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Mike, you hang in there sugar. So many of us have lost our babies and it's a pain that never leaves. It only gets dull. So what you are going through now will at some point subside. I am sure she would want you to remember the good times and all the love you shared and would not want you to hurt.

You did all you could. These little ones sometimes give us NO warning they are sick. Just be thankful you were holding her when she crossed the bridge and she knew you were there with her.

Her little spirt is free now and no more pain for her.

I just wish we could all be there and have one HUGE GliderCENTRAL HUG for you.

Well last night it snowed and got very cold, i keep having these mixed{bad/guily} feelings about her being cold,wet,frozen, we did put her in her favorite fanny pack, and towel, when we buired her, i think i should have had her cremated, these lil gliders depend on us so much, i feel i mad a bad decesion, i almost thought about digging her back up, i keep going out there and looking hoping i see her, last night i went out and covered her grave so she would not get wet, and was so sad to move her cage {big one} unlike a dog {most} cat {most} these lil babies have an entire house,toys, and a hudge presence of life for such tiny angels, i am still so heart broken, mike here is a picture of her on the vegas strip she had such a fun time being with us 24/7. would i feel any better if i dug her up and had her cremated and in the warm house with me?

Mike, this is a personal decision. All of my babies have been cremated and put in a pretty box with a sticky name tag on it. When one of us go they will go along with us.

But please try and understand that was OUR decision.

Somewhere in your heart and mind you need to understand the Rainbow Bridge. She's not there in the ground anymore. Her spirt is free.

This is just one persons (2) on what we have done.

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*crying*
Ive been sitting here for over an hour now trying and trying to find the words to type.
I am so so sorry. I wish I could sit with you both and cry with you and share stories. I dont really know what to say. I wish I could say I knew what your feeling, but noone ever knows for sure what another feels exactly. But I can tell you my heart was broken Oct. 2nd of this year (little over a month ago). I lost someone very dear to me. My precious furry girl, "Mya", of four years. I cannot even begin to describe what she meant to me, and does mean to me. The time, the effort, the love, I put into her.
She meant (and does) mean the world to me.
When she passed, she passed in my hands... it felt like someone had stolen my breath. For days I couldnt even get out of bed hardly, cause I knew Mya wasnt there to go see first thing... I MISSED (miss) that. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I could sit here all day long and talk about her and describe what she meant.
When I buried her... it was NOT an easy thing to do.
I waited for days to bury her.
It was rainy out, and muddy and chilly, and just dark and gloomy... my girl didnt deserve that. I couldnt make myself bury her outside like that. I wanted her to be outside cause I felt like she was more free somehow that way. But I at least wanted a bright sunny beautiful day to remember.
I kept her stored in the freezer for days. Wrapped carefully in warm soft items that meant something to her. It took me forever to place her in there.
*crying*
I couldnt go near the freezer because I felt so guilty. Anytime anyone would open the freezer, Id scream to shut it fast. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
When the day came to bury her, I struggled with it all day. It took me awhile to be able to place her in the ground.
I cried for days thinking she was out there.
Ive just now come to the conclusion that Mya's not really out there... shes not really cold or wet, hungry, hurting, or lonely.
It was me who was hurting and lonely. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Mya isnt out in that hole in the ground, she is in a far better place. Myas not dead... she lives in me. She lives in my head and my heart, and shell never go away, I have her always. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> I had to really think, (Kinda like that one saying)... I would of rather had the joy and love of having her, than to never have known/loved her at all. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />
Im so glad she was mine and I had her love... noone can ever take that away from me.
I miss her beyond belief, and I dont guess that will ever go away. When you love something so dearly, I dont think the missing them and hurt is supposed to go away.
(It gets better over time, but its still there.)

Now when it rains, and its cold out now.... I just have to think, Myas not outside alone and cold or hurting, she lives in the warmth of my head and heart.
It always hurts, but it does get better and your able to remember the joys and good things.
Many good thoughts and hugs to you my friends...
Im so sorry your heart is hurting.

(sorry, I do talk alot.)
I dont know if youve seen these posts or not... but heres a couple explaining a little of my grief. You may not wanna read them or even feel like it...
Mya (my heart) is gone...
"Amy" ...and the priceless gift of love and family.
My heart goes out to you.
Saying a prayer that you be comforted.
Do what you both feel you need to, to grieve, and what you feel comfortable with. You lost a loved one, a family member. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />
This is a great community here... please know we are here for you.
Please feel free to email me if you need to vent or talk or just want to share stories of your precious girl, or cry together. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Im going to move this to the 'Real Stories' forum... so more can see it, and so she'll have a special place here to be remembered by all. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Mike-
We lost our Daddy Glider, William, nicknamed Baby Boy not long ago. Because of an error on the part of the vet, who sent him for Rabies testing to the state (a disease he couldn't have had) I never got any of him back to bury at all. That was very difficult for me. I rewrote a song for him in Real Stories, post: Final Tribute to my rainbow babies. You had a BEAUTIFUL little girl- <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/muchlove.gif" alt="" />absolutely adorable in those pics, and you could tell she was loved. She knew it, too. It is of course your choice as to whether to disinter and cremate. But all that is in your yard is an empty shell now. Her spirit is in a place that is warm and cozy, happy, never knowing hunger, fear, pain, loneliness, or sickness. And she will wait for you there. The song I rewrote for mine was "Remember When", and one day you will remember your beautiful girl, and it will bring a smile instead of so much pain. She knew she was loved and wanted, and that you did all you could. Sometimes, there isn't much you CAN do, these little ones hide their illnesses so well. My Baby Boy died of an intestinal blockage/seepage, and showed no sign of illness until a couple of hours before he died. By the time I got him to the vet within the hour, he was dying and in agony. All I could do was sign the order to end his pain, and have them open him to find out why. No fault or blame lies with you. Every time you see a rainbow, remember your beautiful, special girl, and know she is happy, warm, and comfortable, and waiting for the someday when you meet her there. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Mike,

Please remember that your little girl is being comforted and taken care of by all of our lost babies at The Rainbow Bridge. I'm sorry for your loss.

Chris & Sher

Thank you for all the kindness, i really need it, yesterday i went to a store to get out, and a i walked by a fruit area, very hard, almost every isle i went down had a product that reminded me of her, i miss feeding her everynight, i think in a way you feel it is a real child "baby" as you have to care for them similar, feed,hold,clean up, very hands on care, then all of a sudden NO CARE, we now also feel guilty that maybe we should have taken her in sooner, and also having her outside, i have mixed feeling about digging her up now that she is at rest, i placed a flower there, and today i am going to put a nutt there, i miss her so much nothing can fill the void of the love and bond of a lovey glider.

Except, perhaps, another to love, hold, care for, cuddle, and spoil -when you're ready. A new baby can never replace the little love you lost, but are special in themselves and can go a long way to help heal the wounds and fill part of the void left behind. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> Healing prayers coming to you. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

I see you are from Park city UT, strange we were just there, with are lil one about a month ago we stayed there in our r.v.

Hi Mike. There aren't many of us Coloradoans around here... so we have to stick together! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Let me know if there's anything I can do to help ya out... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />

Oh my gosh, this thread has tears rolling down my face. Mike, I think a lot of us can relate to your feelings about our babies being cold out there. There are a lot of us who have lost our sweet babies. I'm glad you are finding some comfort here. God bless you and your wife. I hope you find peace soon. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Thank you so much Natalie, we will decide tonight if we are going to dig her up or not, & have her cremated, which i think will make us feel better, however she is still gone.. been a week now and still cry everyday, i open the fridge were is the big bowl of fruit? & leadbeaters, so many reminders, last night was hard as sunday was the night for her to be in her exercise ball, i kept going towards the area were her cage used to be, and around 4 each evening is when i used to take her from her cage and keep her until i went to bed everynight no matter what. i still feel her in my bathrobe pocket were she spent almost 6 years with me.

Oh Mike... many good thoughts and prayers of comfort to you both. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Its been 6 weeks and two days since I lost my precious Mya. I still cry almost daily. There are too many memories and things around the house that remind me of her. After 4 years of carrying her all day long and playing every night, she left a hole in my heart. My was very very special. She was the reason I could smile every single day, she was the reason Ive been here for so long, and have met many wonderful people. Mya did many things in the Glider community... her imagesand stories are everywhere. I have no choice but to 'see' her daily and be reminded.
It breaks my heart... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
But, at the same time, I am glad and honored to remember such a precious being. My world was a better place for so so long, because of Mya.
My heart aches cause shes not here, but Im thankful for the time I had with her at the same time.
I will remember her always.

I know how you felt about going to the store... I couldnt either for awhile without having to cry and leave. It does get some better my friend. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

I dont want this to sound rude or offensive in any way...
I know there will never be another Spyro. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> Never.
But, you might, when your heart feels some better... possibly think about getting a new baby to bond with and love... give another precious Glider a chance at a wonderful life like you gave to Spyro.
Spyro was a one of a kind... noone could ever replace her. There may be another little one out there for you and your wife to love and care for.
When Mya passed, it devastated me. I wasnt sure if Id ever get another Glider... (I have two boys, but they are not like Mya was... Mya was truly unique...I refuse to remove her name tag from their cage.) I had bad thoughts, and questioned my ability as a glider parent. I felt like I could never love another glider like the way I loved Mya.

Just a little over a week ago, some special people surprised me with a wee little furry girl named "Amy"... I didnt know what to think! I just wasnt even sure about having another Glider like that again... to make a loooong story shorter... you would not believe what its done for my heart. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" /> I know she will never replace Mya. But I can tell you already, there will never be another Amy. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
I still cry all the time for Mya... and I miss her terribly.
This new little girl has helped ease my heartache quite abit. I love her so so much already.
You may or may not ever be ready for another Glider... you know whats best for you. (just something to think about in the future)

It must be so hard on you, the thought of "should I or should I not" have Spyro cremated.
That is totally up to you and your wife and what you feel comfortable with. Spyro is not in that hole in the ground... she is warm and happy and knows shes loved. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />
If you think it will ease your pain to bring her inside and have her cremated... then do so. You lost a family member... you have the right to feel and grieve however you need to. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Im so sorry. My heart hurts for you both.
Prayers that your hearts start mending and is filled with wonderful precious memories that make you smile. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Thank you so much BMX, i am so sorry to hear about your loss Mya what a nice name, and yet happy to hear about Amy, thanks for your prayers and for everyones prayers and concerns, i really mean it,Mike

I very much agree. When the time is right you should consider letting another glider into your heart. I lost two precious souls last winter and both of them had cage mates. I did find new cage mates for my gliders left behind but was never able to bond with the new ones the way I was with Cider and Pickachu. I received Catcher in October and I finally find my heart healing. You can't ever replace one with another but you can give another glider a chance at a wonderful relationship. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Mike-

PM sent.

Mike, if you and your wife will be up this way again anytime, I'd love to meet you! I work in Park City, live about 13 miles away in Kamas. Just let me know-you would be welcome. I really think your little girl was beautiful, by the way. Mya-BMXgirl's and my William crossed to the bridge only two weeks apart-William was my fifth baby to go there, and I still find myself in tears frequently, even though I have eight others to love, cuddle, and spoil. Time does heal, though-it just takes however long it does to get there. I really feel for your loss, and this thread has brought tears more than once. You were very special glider people, and have a lot of love to give-both for your baby waiting at the bridge, and one you may have yet to meet. If you hadn't loved with everything you were, it wouldn't hurt so bad now, if that helps, and it takes special people to do that.

thank you so much Jen, for the kinda words, well we did dig up spyro last night, and put her in the freezer until today were she has been picked up to be cremated by her self, in her favorite fanny pouch in which we buired her, i think i feel better about it, at least now if we ever move, she can come with us..Mike

Why do these sweet little creature's capture your heart so much?

My personal opinion is that they are VERY dependent on us for day-to-day survival. Most domesticated animals can survive on their own, however gliders haven't been in captivity very long; relatively speaking. Wild instincts are still inherent in our fuzzbutz, but from day one, they are handled and cared for by us. Also consider their appearance. We, as humans, naturally like things that are cute. Sure, there are some weirdos that have the same love for spiders and snakes <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/thumb.gif" alt="" />(That would be me,) but gliders are just plain adorable! Who couldn't love those beautiful eyes and fluffy tail? Plus, as an extra, added bonus, they can FLY! (Well, glide anyway.) We love the fact that these special (exotic) creatures will bond to, and depend on us. This fact brings out the nurturing instinct that many of us have within. I've noticed that woman seem to make up the majority of glider-caretakers, but there ARE men, (Yes, that would be me again,) but they are fewer and far between. They (gliders) at least try to give something back for our efforts, and most of us are not disappointed. Please understand that those of us who've lost our babies have cried more for them than any other pet they've had, (and some people to boot!) In the end, the human dynamics of the grief process is the same. We never "get over" a true, pure love. Time only makes the process a little easier.

Best wishes & remember:

"If you could heal a broken heart, wouldn't time be out to charm you?"

Annie's dad-I couldn't have put it better. Some of mine have looked at me with an expression I can't describe, but that clearly says, I love you and want to be with you. Please hold me, play with me, take me out to be with you. They aren't like any other animal. Riker always takes the time to rub his head on me and mark me as "his", and looks at me with an adoring expression that is beyond words. I melt. I was very detached when I got my first glider (Riker, my avatar). He brought me out of a severe depression even my friends and family couldn't touch. And I dont' ever think of going back there. I really dont' think any other being could have had the same effect. Because they are wild, their love and trust not bred in for humans and therfore much harder to gain, it makes it that much more special and rewarding to get. Dependency aside, it is an active, TWO way relationship, and a true give and take you don't often get even with people. I love the way they look, the way they move, their individual and distinct personalities, and the fact they genuinely want my company. When they stick their noses and hands through the cage asking for contact with you-what on earth could be better, or even come close? Sometimes you can look at them and feel so much it hurts. And when you lose one, the loss is indescribable, of that precious, special friendship and love. The little face haunts you, and the pain is unlike anything I ever lost before. Why? They are beautiful, unique, intelligent, dependent, personable, loving, and capable of a very personal bond unlike most of our domesticated animals-or even some people I know. To feel one of those little, trusting warm bodies against my heart I have never been as content. To know that I have in some way earned the love and devotion they exhibit so clearly, and it is so humbling at the same time. At least that's what I think the WHY is. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> THEY wrap US around their little fingers, and hold our hearts in those tiny little five-fingered hands that sometimes can look so much like our own.

well said, i dont know what more to add or say, just a moment to cry and reflect on all the lost gliders.

Oh my gosh. Once again I am in tears. Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. Your love and devotion to your little one is so touching. I cry for all the lost suggies because it is so obvious how much they have been loved and I dread the day when I lose one of my babies. I am thankful that when that dreaded day arrives I know there will be heartfelt words of comfort from the wonderful people here.
These special little ones are in our lives for such a short time (15 years is just not long enough) and I know mine have all stolen my heart at first sight.
I pray for your heart to heal and soon you will have nothing but smiles when you think of your little Spyro. I am sure that Spyro, Mya, Annie, Katey and all the rest are good friends by now and will keep each other company until the time comes for you all to meet at the Bridge.

Thank you for the kind words Dancing, well Spyro has come home for good now, i am going to put her nice box on top of her folded favorite hanging pouch, she came with that pouch, i have lit a candle for her and all other gliders who have passed and will keep the candle burning all day and evening. Mike.

I hope this thread does not die yet! I still miss her i spent last night with her box on my lap and i rubbed it just like i used to do to her belly, i have met a lot of nice people here, even have a rainbow book coming thanks so much , you people are special, i got more support here then my family & freinds, excluding wife she understands fully, they just dont understand the loving bond. mike

Awww Mike... Im so so sorry. Its so hard. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />
I hope that having her inside with you all now has helped in healing your hearts a little. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />
Im glad your getting a copy of the Rainbow Bridge stories... (Chris & Sher are awesome! So much love and caring...)
It really is a lovely story and it did help to comfort me some.
Im still not over Mya, and I dont think I ever will be... last night I watched a video of her for the first time in weeks... I was bawling, but at the same time smiling at her antics. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/heartpump.gif" alt="" />

Im so sorry... I know this is so very hard to deal with. I agree, this is a wonderful place... the Glider community here has helped me tremendously with my grief. It sure is nice to have folks that understand. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (I had a friend of mine's husband tell me a couple days after Mya died something to the effect of "its just an animal, everything dies." <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> I got so mad I left their home! Im sorry, I know its 'just' an animal... but she was family! Doesnt mean I loved her any less.)

Please know we are here for you and understand your in pain. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

thanks bmx we do feel better now that she is with us in the house, got the rainbow book today and it is great i want to REALLY thank Chris and Sher for the kind gift, we still very much miss her, bringing her in helps the heart some, but we still grieve. Mike

I just wanted to say how very sorry I am that you lost your precious baby!!! I don't know how I missed this thread ( I guess I just haven't been on as much because I've been so busy). I can understand how difficult this must be for you. I call my gliders my "babies" and my "kids" and they really do seem like my own children to me. I hope that someday you will let another glider into your life- a glider that won't replace her, but a glider that will open your heart and let it love again. You have my condolences. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cloud9.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Oops, I meant for that to be three hugs. Sorry. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> So here they are. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug2.gif" alt="" />

Thank you so much for the hug's, and your kind words, mike

I wonder if having spyro living alone, was a bad idea she never really seemed or looked depressed, and was out daily no matter what, how many glider parients only have 1 glider? just curious. Mike

I've had a single female for 6 yrs.never a problem. I get her out and play with her a daily basis.vet said she is healthy. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Every glider's different. I had to take one of my females out away from her mate for a day, and the mate never went in his pouch -- constantly looked and called for her until I returned her. Some gliders do fine without mates. Many don't.

I personally have a brother sister pair. I know monster started out with just one. Don't second guess yourself though, Mike. You'll drive yourself crazy. You know, as well as the rest of us from hearing you, that you loved your little one with all your heart. There will always be what if's. There is no way to stop them, the will just get less as time goes on.

We are all hear for you!

i think soon i have to get another, but am affraid for some reason, your so right about the what if's, now i am wondering about diet,depression, i just need to LET it go, she passed on in my hand and that is that. Mike

i just love looking at the pictures of your gliders makes my smile and makes me cry.

Mike, I am glad to see you are thinking about sharing your heart with another little suggie. A new glider won't replace your Spyro but it will help your heart to heal some. Ask yourself, would Spyro want you to give your love to another glider? It sounds to me like you were so unselfish with Spyro and you have much to offer another little one. Only you will know if and when you are ready. We are here for you either way.

Well i still miss my little spyro, i think i would like to get another, but i think i am affraid to make any sense?
Mike <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Ohh yeah it makes a lot of sense. You feel like what if I mess up she /he can't take the place of my baby and can I love one that much again to risk only losing another glider. Well you will never forget your Spyro but a new friend just might be what Spyro would want for you. Give your self a chance to be loved by a new baby and a lucky glider a chance to know the love you have for the sweet little critters.