Hi Jen, sorry to see that you are having all of these problems. I have a few questions, what are you feeding them at night time?
Also, is there a lot of noise during the day that may be keeping them awake and not getting any rest?
You know how we are, we can be quite cranky when we didn't get out beauty rest.
Just wondering if maybe these things have to do with their being so stressed.
Something I have done recently is move 4 of my suggies to my office, where the tv isn't going and there is no noise from the kitchen etc.
I have noticed that they now wake an hour earlier, it was 9pm, now it is 8pm, telling me they are resting better.
Or because they now don't have to tollerate the lights on in the house for a few hours before they wake, as my office is on the east side of the house, and it gets darker in their earlier.
So maybe that would give you some ideas to change or think about.
I sure hope those two start to get along better, it is no fun living alone.